Relationship & Couples Counselling
You’re tired of the same fights, the same silence, the same slow drift apart.
You sit next to each other, but it feels like you’re worlds apart. You’ve tried to fix it, but nothing seems to change.
The worst part? It’s not just the fights. It’s the resentment, the loneliness, the feeling that no matter what you do, nothing gets better. It’s exhausting. You’re walking on eggshells, feeling invisible, wondering if this is just how things are now. You love them. So why does it feel like love isn’t enough?
Relationships carry trauma, disconnection, and communication breakdowns – your own and family legacy’s.
We work with couples, families, polycules, and ethical non-monogamous relationships to rebuild trust, navigate intimacy, and learn how to truly hear one another.
It doesn’t have to stay this way. If your relationship is at a crossroads, with the right support, it’s possible to slow things down and find a way forward. If you’re ready to stop feeling like strangers, let’s start.
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Relationship support that goes deeper than better communication
We will focus on understanding why the same patterns keep repeating, even when you care deeply about one another.
Using trauma-informed, evidence-based relationship therapy, you will be supported to:
- Understand the cycles that keep pulling you apart
- Repair ruptures, and unmet needs
- Rebuild trust and emotional safety
- Navigate intimacy, sex, and desire with honesty and care
- Learn how to stay connected without abandoning yourself.
Key Benefits
- A non-judgemental space where all relationship structures are respected
- Feeling heard by the people you love and love you – without blame
- Understand why you keep repeating the same arguments and move on from them
- Talk about sex, money, kids – and the real issues without blowing up
- Learning how to stop managing everyones feelings
- Finding a way back to each other after betrayal
- Support that considers trauma, attachment, sexuality, and nervous system responses
- Clear guidance to interrupt unhelpful patterns
- Tools for repair, boundaries, and rebuilding trust
What relationship counselling is
A place to understand what’s happening beneath the conflict
Rather than focusing on who’s “right”, we explore what each person is protecting, longing for, or responding to.
Support for intimacy, sex, and emotional connection
Including mismatched desire, sexual shutdown, betrayal, jealousy, or changes in relationship agreements.
A space to slow things down and get clear
Whether that means repairing, renegotiating, or consciously deciding what comes next.
Methods
Our work draws on trauma-informed couples therapy, attachment theory, nervous system regulation, and sex-positive practice.
Sessions are structured enough to keep things safe and productive, while flexible enough to meet the unique needs of your relationship, including non-traditional and multi-partner dynamics.
We use Gottman and Imago couples therapy frameworks.
Who this is for
Relationship counselling is for anyone who is:
- Feeling disconnected, resentful, or stuck in repeating cycles
- Struggling with communication differences
- Parenting together when you’re not on the same page
- Navigating a seperation or divorce
- Adult children and parents trying to find new ways to relate
- Blended families finding their feet
- Working through life changes that affect everyone
- Carrying something from your own family that is showing up in your current relationship
- Navigating trust issues, betrayal, or ruptures
- Struggling with intimacy, sex, or desire
- Opening up, closing down, or renegotiating what your relationship looks like
- Wanting support that is inclusive of polyamory, ENM, or kink
Not sure where this is headed — but ready to figure it out? Reach out.
Experienced support for poly, ENM & kink relationships
You don’t need to explain your relationship structure before you can get support. You won’t be questioned about your choices, asked to justify how you live, or quietly nudged toward monogamy. This is a space that understands how you actually live – and welcomes it.
There is space here to explore:
- Boundaries and agreements that aren’t working anymore
- What you need Vs what your partners need – and how to hold both
- Trauma responses that trigger reactions and emotions in ways you didn’t expect
- Jealousy that harder to manage than you expected
- The difference between a relationship problem and an attachment wound
- Welcoming new partners
- Compersion – and why it does’t always show up as expected or hoped
- Shifts in power dynamics and how to navigate them safely
Book an appointment
Support is available in-person in Perth and online across Australia.
If you’re ready to stop feeling like strangers, or want help understanding what’s happening.
